How to Track Your Baby's Development (Without Overthinking It)
Tracking your baby's development doesn't have to be stressful. Here's how to stay informed, spot patterns, and enjoy the journey without spiralling into comparison.
The 6-week postnatal check has long been the cultural benchmark for returning to exercise after birth. Many women are told at that appointment that they are "cleared to exercise" and take this as permission to resume running, high-intensity classes, or heavy lifting. This guidance is outdated and insufficient, and following it without additional assessment can lead to lasting problems with the pelvic floor and abdominal function.
The 6-week postnatal check in the UK is a brief GP appointment that covers a range of topics — contraception, mood, feeding, wound healing — in a short time. It is not and cannot be a full physiological assessment of musculoskeletal and pelvic floor function. The GP is not assessing whether your pelvic floor can withstand impact exercise. They are checking that you are broadly well.
There are several reasons why 6 weeks is an arbitrary and often premature timeline for returning to high-impact exercise:
Connective tissue healing takes longer. The hormone relaxin, which loosens ligaments during pregnancy to allow the pelvis to expand during birth, remains elevated in the postpartum period, particularly in breastfeeding women. Relaxin makes ligaments and connective tissue more vulnerable to overuse injury. The timeline for full resolution is not 6 weeks — it can be up to 12 months postpartum in some breastfeeding women.
The pelvic floor has been under substantial load. A full-term baby, placenta, and amniotic fluid can weigh 8 to 10kg. The pelvic floor has been supporting this load for months, and during a vaginal birth, pelvic floor muscles stretch to many times their resting length. Returning to high-impact exercise before the pelvic floor has regained sufficient strength and coordination can contribute to incontinence, pelvic organ prolapse, or pelvic pain.
Diastasis recti may be unresolved. Abdominal separation (diastasis recti), where the two sides of the rectus abdominis muscle are separated by a wider than normal gap, affects many pregnant women to some degree. Returning to certain exercises — particularly sit-ups, heavy lifting, and high-impact activity — before the linea alba has regained sufficient tension can worsen the separation and cause ongoing abdominal dysfunction.
The UK Chief Medical Officers' guidelines on physical activity after childbirth (updated 2019) recommend that all women return to exercise progressively, prioritising pelvic floor rehabilitation before impact exercise.
The 2019 guidelines from the Guildford Pelvic Health physiotherapists (also known as the "returning to running" guidelines, widely adopted across the profession) recommend waiting at least 3 months postpartum before returning to running or high-impact exercise, and even then only when specific functional benchmarks are met — not simply when a calendar date is reached.
Those benchmarks include: being able to walk briskly for 30 minutes, being able to single-leg balance for 10 seconds, being able to jog on the spot for 1 minute without symptoms, and having no urinary leakage, pelvic heaviness, or pressure. If these benchmarks cannot be met, it is a signal that more pelvic floor and lower limb rehabilitation is needed before progressing.
Regardless of how many weeks postnatal you are, the following symptoms during or after exercise indicate that you are doing too much too soon and need to reduce intensity or stop:
If you experience any of these, reduce intensity and seek assessment from a women's health physiotherapist.
Ideally, every postnatal woman would have access to at least one appointment with a women's health physiotherapist. In much of Europe this is standard practice. In the UK it is not — NHS provision of postnatal physiotherapy is inconsistent across regions.
You can ask for a referral from your GP or midwife. If NHS access is limited, private appointments with a women's health physiotherapist or pelvic health physio are widely available and are a genuinely worthwhile investment. One or two appointments can provide a personalised assessment of your pelvic floor function, check for diastasis recti, and give you a specific rehabilitation plan.
Returning to exercise after birth should follow a progression, not a calendar.
Weeks 0 to 6: Focus on gentle pelvic floor exercises (Kegels), diaphragmatic breathing, and walking at a comfortable pace. Walking is genuinely good exercise at this stage and should not be dismissed as insufficient.
Weeks 6 to 12: Increase walking intensity and duration. Begin gentle rehabilitation exercises for the core and glutes — bridges, clamshells, bird-dogs — if you have no pain or symptoms. Pilates classes specifically designed for postnatal women are excellent at this stage.
After 3 months, if benchmarks are met: Gradual return to running using a walk-run interval programme. Return to strength training with appropriate progressions and attention to technique.
After 6 months: Most women can return to their full pre-pregnancy exercise programme if pelvic floor and abdominal function have been properly rehabilitated. This timeline is not a maximum — many women return to running, CrossFit, or heavy lifting earlier. But if symptoms arise, that is information about readiness, not motivation.
Your body has done something extraordinary. Giving it the time and support it needs to recover is not delay — it is investment in long-term health.
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