Your First Week at Home with a Newborn: What to Expect
Coming home with a new baby is overwhelming, magical, and nothing like you imagined. Here's a realistic, reassuring guide to surviving — and enjoying — week one.
Weight is one of the most closely monitored things in the early weeks of your baby's life — and one of the biggest sources of parental anxiety. Here's what the numbers actually mean, and when to be concerned.
The average birth weight for a full-term UK baby is approximately 3.4kg (7.5lbs) for boys and 3.3kg (7.3lbs) for girls. The healthy range is wide: roughly 2.5kg–4.5kg.
Birth weight is influenced by: maternal nutrition during pregnancy, gestational age, genetics, placental function, and whether there are multiple babies.
Nearly all babies lose weight in the first few days of life. This is completely normal and happens because:
Example: A 3.4kg baby might drop to 3.0kg in the first few days. This is within normal range.
Usually between day 2 and day 4. After this, weight should start to increase.
If baby is not back to birth weight by day 14, your midwife or health visitor will want to review feeding and may refer to a feeding specialist or paediatrician.
After regaining birth weight, babies should gain approximately:
| Age | Expected gain | |-----|--------------| | 0–4 months | 150–200g per week | | 4–6 months | 100–150g per week | | 6–12 months | 70–90g per week |
These are averages — babies don't gain in a perfectly straight line. Growth often happens in bursts (growth spurts) with flatter periods in between.
Your baby's weight (and length, and head circumference) will be plotted on centile charts in their red book. These charts show where your baby sits relative to the UK population.
A baby on the 25th centile weighs less than 75% of babies their age — but this is entirely normal. Centile lines are not scores to aim for.
What matters most:
A small baby who is thriving is fine. A baby of average size who is consistently crossing downward centile lines needs investigation.
Speak to your midwife, health visitor, or GP if:
Your health visitor will plot weights in the red book. If you're supplementing with formula and want to monitor supply, discuss a weighing schedule with your health visitor — not more frequent than every 2 weeks.
Log every weight measurement in TinyYears to see your own growth curve chart over time. Seeing the upward trend across the weeks is enormously reassuring — and gives you a complete record for any health appointments.
Use the TinyYears app to journal every precious moment — photos, voice notes, videos and more.
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