Your First Week at Home with a Newborn: What to Expect
Coming home with a new baby is overwhelming, magical, and nothing like you imagined. Here's a realistic, reassuring guide to surviving — and enjoying — week one.
Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) — also called "cot death" — is every new parent's deepest fear. The good news is that SIDS rates in the UK have fallen by over 80% since safe sleep campaigns began in the 1990s. Following current guidelines significantly reduces risk.
This guide summarises the Lullaby Trust and NHS guidance for keeping your baby safe during sleep.
Baby should sleep in their own space — their own cot, Moses basket, or bedside crib. Not in your bed, not in a bouncer or car seat for sleep.
Always place baby on their back to sleep — for every sleep, every nap, every time. This is the single most important safe sleep recommendation. Side and tummy sleeping dramatically increase SIDS risk.
Once baby can roll from back to front and front to back independently, you don't need to reposition them during sleep — but always start them on their back.
The cot should be clear: no pillows, no duvets, no cot bumpers, no soft toys, no sleep positioners, no rolled blankets.
Sleep surface:
Bedding:
Environment:
Positioning:
Room-sharing (baby in your room, in their own sleep space) is recommended for the first 6 months and significantly reduces SIDS risk.
Bed-sharing is officially not recommended by the Lullaby Trust, but many families do it. The risk is not zero but is significantly higher in certain circumstances:
Higher risk situations (please don't bed-share if):
If you do choose to bed-share despite the guidance, make the bed as safe as possible: firm mattress, no duvet over baby, no pillow near baby, baby on the side of a non-smoking, non-drinking parent, never against a wall.
The Safe Sleep Seven from La Leche League provides a risk-reduction framework for families who choose bed-sharing.
Never, under any circumstances, fall asleep with your baby on a sofa or armchair. This is the highest-risk sleep surface of all — the risk of SIDS and accidental suffocation is dramatically elevated. If you're worried about falling asleep while feeding, move to a bed rather than a sofa.
Car seats are not a safe sleep surface outside of vehicles. The semi-reclined position can cause the head to fall forward, restricting the airway. If baby falls asleep in the car seat, transfer them to their cot as soon as safely possible.
The same applies to bouncers, swings, and rockers — handy for supervised awake time, not safe for unsupervised sleep.
Swaddling can help some newborns feel secure and sleep better. To swaddle safely:
Hip dysplasia warning: Swaddling with legs straight and pressed together is associated with hip problems. Leave the legs free to frog or flex.
The Lullaby Trust acknowledges evidence that dummy use at the start of sleep may reduce SIDS risk, but does not actively recommend dummies. If you do use one:
What if baby prefers sleeping on their tummy?
The back sleeping recommendation exists regardless of preference. Many babies sleep less soundly on their backs — this is actually considered protective, as lighter sleep may make arousal easier.
Can I use a second-hand mattress?
Some studies suggested a link between second-hand mattresses and SIDS risk, though the evidence is disputed. The Lullaby Trust recommends using a new mattress for each baby if possible. If using second-hand, ensure it's from a smoke-free home, firm, flat, and in good condition.
What about co-sleeping products like Next2Me cribs?
Bedside cribs that attach to your adult bed (Chicco Next2Me, Snuzpod, etc.) are an excellent compromise — baby is in their own safe sleep space right next to you. These are endorsed by the Lullaby Trust.
SIDS is very rare — 1 in 4,000 babies in the UK. Following the guidelines makes it rarer still. Sleep safely, sleep well.
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