Your First Week at Home with a Newborn: What to Expect
Coming home with a new baby is overwhelming, magical, and nothing like you imagined. Here's a realistic, reassuring guide to surviving — and enjoying — week one.
Baby hair care is one of those topics that ranges from entirely simple — for babies born with very little hair — to surprisingly involved, particularly for babies with thick, curly, or textured hair. This guide covers what you actually need to know: how to wash a newborn's hair, how to tell cradle cap from dry scalp, how to manage different hair types, and when the first haircut makes sense.
Newborn hair does not need washing every day, and it does not need shampoo at all in the very early weeks. Plain warm water is sufficient until there is a reason to use a cleanser. When you do introduce a product, choose a fragrance-free, tear-free baby shampoo or wash.
The technique matters particularly for babies who dislike having their heads wet.
Frequency: washing hair two to three times a week is plenty for most babies. More frequent washing is unnecessary and can dry out the scalp.
Cradle cap (seborrhoeic dermatitis) is extremely common in the first few months of life. It appears as yellow, greasy, scaly patches on the scalp — sometimes in small areas, sometimes covering the entire top of the head. It can also extend to the eyebrows, behind the ears, and into skin folds.
Cradle cap is not caused by poor hygiene and is not contagious. It is thought to be related to overactive sebaceous glands, possibly influenced by maternal hormones still circulating in the baby's system in the weeks after birth.
For most babies, cradle cap resolves on its own within a few months without any treatment. If you want to help it along:
If cradle cap is extensive, inflamed, or spreading beyond the scalp, speak to your GP or health visitor. A mild hydrocortisone cream or antifungal shampoo is sometimes recommended in more persistent cases.
Dry scalp is different from cradle cap. It appears as small, fine, white flakes (similar to dandruff) without the yellow, greasy quality of cradle cap. It is more commonly associated with dry skin in general, and simple moisturisation of the scalp helps. However, the two conditions can co-exist, and if you are unsure which you are dealing with, a health visitor can advise.
Fine, sparse hair. Many babies are born with very little hair, or hair that falls out in the first few months to be replaced with their permanent hair. This is entirely normal. No special care is required.
Thick, straight hair. A wide-toothed comb or soft baby brush works well. Hair tangles less readily at this age, and grooming is straightforward.
Curly and coily hair. Curly and coily hair types require more moisture and more gentle handling. Key principles:
Many parents of babies with Afro-textured or mixed-heritage hair find that adult products designed for curly hair types work better than most products marketed for babies, provided they are fragrance-free and free from harsh chemicals.
For all hair types, look for products that are:
Avoid any product that is not specifically intended for infants unless you have researched the ingredient list and are satisfied it is safe.
There is no set age at which a first haircut is necessary. It depends entirely on how quickly your baby's hair grows and whether it is getting in their eyes or becoming uncomfortable to manage. Some babies have their first trim at three months; others go well past their first birthday without needing one.
For a home haircut: wet the hair, use small, sharp baby scissors, and cut in small snips rather than large cuts. Having a second person to hold and distract the baby helps enormously. Cutting while the baby is drowsy or feeding can also work.
For a salon visit: choose a children's hairdresser if possible, or a stylist who has experience with young children. Bring a favourite toy or snack. Accept that the result may be imperfect — getting through the appointment without tears (yours or theirs) is the real success metric.
Use the TinyYears app to journal every precious moment — photos, voice notes, videos and more.
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