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Meningitis is inflammation of the meninges — the membranes surrounding the brain and spinal cord. It is one of the most serious illnesses a baby can develop and requires immediate medical attention. Knowing the symptoms, understanding the glass test, and recognising when to call 999 could save your child's life.
This guide is about recognising and responding to meningitis in babies and young children. If you are reading this because you are concerned about your child right now, stop reading and call 999.
Meningitis can be caused by viruses or bacteria.
Viral meningitis is far more common and is usually less severe. Most people with viral meningitis recover fully without specific treatment, though the illness can be very unpleasant and frightening.
Bacterial meningitis is rarer but is a life-threatening emergency. It can progress from first symptoms to death within 24 hours. The most common bacterial causes in the UK are:
Bacterial meningitis is often accompanied by septicaemia (blood poisoning), which produces the characteristic rash and is the most immediately life-threatening element.
Babies cannot tell you they have a headache or that the light hurts their eyes. Their symptoms are different from those in older children and adults.
The characteristic rash of meningococcal disease is a non-blanching rash — meaning it does not fade when pressed. It appears as small, flat, red or purple spots that look like tiny bruises or blood spots under the skin. These are called petechiae (if small) or purpura (if larger). As the condition progresses, the spots can merge into large, blotchy patches.
The rash may not appear at all, or may appear late. Do not wait for a rash to develop before calling 999. A baby can have bacterial meningitis without any rash.
Press a clear glass firmly against the rash. If the spots or marks fade and disappear under pressure, it is likely to be a blanching rash — less concerning. If the marks remain clearly visible through the glass, it is a non-blanching rash and you must call 999 immediately.
The glass test only tells you about the rash. It tells you nothing about whether meningitis is present in the absence of a rash. A child can be critically ill with bacterial meningitis and have no rash at all.
You may have seen images of the glass test on the Meningitis Research Foundation or NHS websites. These show a purple, blotchy rash through a glass tumbler — the rash remains visible under the glass. Keep the image in mind, but do not rely solely on recognising the rash. Trust the other symptoms.
Call 999 immediately if your baby:
Call 999 without waiting for all symptoms to appear. Meningitis can progress with extraordinary speed. If your instincts tell you something is seriously wrong with your baby, act immediately.
Do not drive to hospital yourself if your baby is very unwell — call 999 so an ambulance can begin treatment en route.
The UK childhood vaccination schedule provides protection against several of the bacteria that cause meningitis. These are given as part of the routine NHS programme.
It is important to note that these vaccinations significantly reduce risk but do not eliminate it entirely. Vaccinated children can still develop meningitis caused by strains not covered by the vaccine, or in rare cases, despite vaccination. Immunisation reduces risk — it does not remove the need for parents to be vigilant.
Meningitis Research Foundation (www.meningitis.org) has excellent resources including a free helpline (0808 80 10 388) for families who want more information or support after a diagnosis.
If you are concerned that your baby may have meningitis:
Early treatment with intravenous antibiotics dramatically improves outcomes in bacterial meningitis. The earlier treatment begins, the better the chance of full recovery without complications.
If you call 111 or your GP and remain worried, trust yourself. You can always call 999.
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