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Every parent and carer of a baby should know how to perform infant CPR and how to respond to a choking baby. These are not skills you will likely ever need — but if you do need them, no amount of reading in the moment will substitute for having learned them in advance. This guide covers the correct sequences for infant CPR and choking response as per UK Resuscitation Council guidelines. Reading this is a starting point: we strongly recommend attending a hands-on infant first aid course as well.
Note: Guidelines are updated periodically. The information in this article reflects current Resuscitation Council UK guidance, but always check for the most recent recommendations.
You need to start CPR if a baby is:
Do not wait to see whether the baby is "really" unconscious. Check quickly, and if they are not responding and not breathing normally, begin immediately.
Gently tap the sole of the baby's foot and call their name loudly. Do not shake a baby.
Shout for help from anyone nearby.
Place the baby on a flat surface on their back. Place one finger under the chin to tilt the head back very slightly — neutral position for a baby, not the extended head tilt used for adults and older children. A baby's airway is easily obstructed by over-tilting.
Look, listen, and feel for breathing for no more than 10 seconds. Look for chest movement, listen for breath sounds, feel for air on your cheek.
If the baby is not breathing:
After 5 rescue breaths, begin chest compressions without checking for a pulse (pulse checks are unreliable even for trained rescuers in emergency conditions).
Alternate 30 compressions with 2 rescue breaths.
If you are alone: give 1 minute of CPR (approximately 5 cycles of 30:2) before stopping to call 999. Then continue CPR.
If someone else is present: send them to call 999 immediately while you begin CPR. Ask them to put the call on loudspeaker so the operator can guide you.
Do not stop CPR unless the baby starts breathing normally, qualified help takes over, or you are physically unable to continue.
AEDs are available in many public places. If one is available:
A baby who is choking is conscious but unable to cry effectively, cannot breathe, or is making a high-pitched noise or no sound. They may appear distressed and their face may redden or darken.
Do not attempt blind finger sweeps in the mouth. This can push the object further down.
Alternate 5 back blows and 5 chest thrusts.
Call 999 immediately if the baby is not responding, if the object does not come free after two cycles of back blows and chest thrusts, or if the baby becomes unconscious — in which case, begin CPR.
Abdominal thrusts (the Heimlich manoeuvre) are not used for babies under one year because of the risk of injury to the liver and other abdominal organs.
Even if you successfully dislodge the object and the baby recovers quickly, you should seek medical assessment — particularly if there is any possibility that the object may have been partially inhaled into the airway rather than fully expelled through the mouth.
Reading about CPR and first aid is valuable, but it is not a substitute for practical training. You will not know how hard to press, how large a breath to give, or how to hold a baby correctly without hands-on practice.
In the UK, infant first aid courses are offered by:
A two to three hour infant first aid course will give you skills that could, in an extreme situation, save your baby's life.
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