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Ear infections (otitis media) are extremely common in babies and young children — roughly three-quarters of children will have at least one by age 3. Here's what you need to know.
The Eustachian tube — the canal connecting the middle ear to the back of the throat — is shorter, wider, and more horizontal in babies than in adults. This makes it much easier for bacteria or viruses from a cold or throat infection to travel up into the middle ear.
Other contributing factors:
Acute otitis media (AOM): Middle ear infection — bacterial or viral infection behind the eardrum. Most common type.
Otitis media with effusion ("glue ear"): Fluid in the middle ear without active infection. Often follows AOM. Can persist for weeks to months and causes temporary hearing reduction. Very common — many children have episodes, most resolve without treatment.
Outer ear infection (otitis externa): Infection of the ear canal (not the middle ear). Less common in babies; associated with swimming.
Babies can't tell you their ear hurts, which makes diagnosis harder. Watch for:
The GP will examine both ears with an otoscope (a small light) to look at the eardrum. Signs of AOM include a red, bulging eardrum and sometimes fluid behind it.
UK guidance (NICE): Most ear infections in children (over 6 months) are viral — or bacterial but self-limiting — and do not require immediate antibiotics.
For most children:
Antibiotics are recommended immediately if:
Antibiotic of choice: Amoxicillin (if not allergic to penicillin). 5-day course in the UK.
If fluid persists in the middle ear after an infection (or simply accumulates without clear infection), this is glue ear. It causes:
Most cases resolve on their own within 3 months without treatment.
If glue ear persists and is affecting hearing and speech development, a referral to ENT may be made for consideration of grommets (small tubes inserted into the eardrum to allow drainage). This is a common procedure but usually not considered until the child is 2–3 years and glue ear has been persistent.
Some children have frequent recurrences (3+ per year). Referral to ENT for assessment and possible grommets may be appropriate.
What helps reduce recurrence:
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