How to Track Your Baby's Development (Without Overthinking It)
Tracking your baby's development doesn't have to be stressful. Here's how to stay informed, spot patterns, and enjoy the journey without spiralling into comparison.
Baby poo is one of the most discussed topics in new parenthood — and constipation is one of the most common concerns. Here's how to tell what's normal, what's constipation, and how to help.
Breastfed babies: In the first weeks, most breastfed babies poo multiple times a day. But from around 4–6 weeks, it's completely normal for a breastfed baby to go several days — even up to 7–10 days — without a poo and be entirely comfortable. Breast milk is so well absorbed that very little waste is produced.
Formula-fed babies: Typically poo more often than older breastfed babies but less often than newborn breastfed babies. 1–4 times a day is common; once every few days can also be normal.
Weaning babies: Introducing solids often temporarily changes poo consistency and frequency.
Frequency alone doesn't define constipation. What matters is whether the poo is hard and uncomfortable to pass.
Formula: Some formulas cause harder poo than others. Formula protein is harder to digest than breast milk.
Introducing solids: The digestive system is adapting. Low-fibre first foods (baby rice, white bread, banana, cooked carrot) can contribute to constipation.
Dehydration: Particularly in hot weather or illness.
Cow's milk protein sensitivity: Can cause constipation in some babies.
Illness or fever: Dehydration and changed eating patterns during illness.
Tummy massage: Gentle clockwise circles around the navel (following the direction of the digestive tract). The "I Love You" massage stroke (see our baby massage guide) can help move stuck wind and waste.
Bicycle legs: Gently cycle baby's legs while they're on their back — helps stimulate bowel movement.
Warm bath: Relaxes the body and can encourage bowel movements.
More tummy time: Time on the tummy creates natural pressure on the abdomen that can help.
Many babies grunt, go red in the face, and strain dramatically while producing soft, easily-passed poo. This is normal — they're learning to use their muscles and coordinate the process. This is NOT constipation as long as the poo is soft. The medical term is "infant dyschezia" — it resolves on its own usually by 3–4 months as babies learn to coordinate.
If your baby strains but produces soft poo, no action is needed.
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